It’s the start of a fresh new year! I’m willing to bet that most of you have already made a list of new year’s resolutions, milestones, and other things you’d like to achieve this year (like you probably do EVERY year)…BUT, I want to simplify your life by asking you to do just 1 thing. This one thing will create a shift in your perspective that will guide the rest of the year to make it great.
Write this down or repeat this to yourself:
I WILL CONSCIOUSLY & ACTIVELY CHOOSE MY LIFE
Yes it seems deceptively simple, but let me break down 3 reasons WHY this is effective:
1. It puts the responsibility on YOU
It’s a major mindset change for many because people like to blame external circumstances for reasons why they CAN’T do something. This shifts the responsibility to the “other”…when the entire time YOU have the responsibility to yourself. Even if you have goals set out for the year, you will tell yourself, “oh, well I couldn’t do this or that because I didn’t have the perfect situation or I didn’t have enough time…” ACTIVELY CHOOSE YOUR LIFE = to be active doesn’t mean you let things fall into your lap or let it happen to you…it’s going to take work. But you’re working and choosing for yourself and that’s important.
2. It gives YOU more control of your future
Let me ask you, how many times do you wake up and realize 3 months have passed and you’re not sure what you’ve been doing that whole time? That’s you on autopilot. No matter how great your intention for yourself this year, NOTHING will happen if you live in auto-pilot. CONSCIOUSLY CHOOSE YOUR LIFE = to be conscious is to be aware of every choice you make, even if it seems small. Automatically doing things because you’ve always done it, or saying “yes” to things that you don’t want to be doing or focusing on people and situations that don’t nourish your vision…that’s not being conscious, that’s letting other people decide your future. That’s you not consciously deciding. This year it’s time to wake up and take control.
3. It will help you OWN your life.
It’s ok if you have moments where you feel like a failure – because trust me, you and everyone else will continuously fail – but having the thought that you’re choosing your life makes it possible for you to always course correct and find yourself back to center again. Nobody else is living this life, not your parents, not your friends, not your boyfriend or girlfriend. You are 100% going to choose your life – through the wins and the challenges – it will be authentic because it’s YOURS.
If you need a little reminder, I made some free phone backgrounds you can download below. Enjoy!
I wish you all a wonderful year ahead and sending everyone lots of light and love.